Be kind to yourself 💜 . . . That reminder seems to be following me around this week. I’ve said it over and over again to myself, and a few times to other people. Sometimes we feel like we can’t catch a break, when we’re not even giving ourselves the compassion that we’re seeking from other people. 🧐 . . . Earlier this week, I was literally geeking over my credit report. I’ve been working to re-establish myself financially for the past SIX YEARS, and I’m finally there. It made me think about everything else that I’ve been working to re-establish since my divorce, and then I realized that throughout this entire ordeal, there were times when I wasn’t very kind to myself. 💔 . . . Divorce is hard y’all. Like really hard. And all you want to do is bounce back. So you push yourself. You beat yourself up. You try to validate yourself externally. You get frustrated because things aren’t coming back together for you as quickly as they fell apart. And you get to do all of this while you’re getting older, watching major life milestones happen for your friends, and you feel like nothing, for you, is moving quite fast enough. 😫 . . . And what’s even more interesting are the people that seem to be drawn to you when you’re trying to grow through the whole thing. That’s an entire post within itself, but just know that when you’re not kind to yourself, there are certain types of people who instantly know that they don’t need to be kind to you either. 🤷🏽‍♀️ . . So be kind to yourself, and celebrate your progress. Remind yourself daily if you have to. And I’ll remind you too 💜 . . . . . #pursuehappiness #browngirlbloggers #blackgirlmagic #healthymindhealthylife #bloggerstyle #fatgirlfresh #justathought #liveyourlife #workonyourself #factsoflife #lifestyleblogger #movingmountains #goodvibetribe #lovelessons #retrograde #majorkeys
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****** We still throwin' it back, right?! Curves. Melanin. Vibes. #TBT to TCFStyleExpo '17 and a few pics with muh faves! 💕 . . . . . . . #tbt #lifestyle #TCF#TCFStyleExpo #TCFStyleExpo #curvyfashionista #curvygirl #psblogger #plusisamust #bbw #plussizestyle #plussizestylewatch
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When @bethcub turned me into a piece of art 😍😍
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😘 THROWING IT BACK TO JUNE 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘😘 😘🤩 🤩 🤩 😘 😘 🤩 🤩 😘 😍 😍 😘 😘 😘 🤩 🤩 😘 😘 😍 😘 🤩 😍 😍 🤩 😍 😘 🤩 😘 ##bbw#ppreciation #plu#plu#plussizeswimwear #plu#plussizemodelmag # #effyourbeautystandards #goldenconfidence #bodyconfidence #bodypositivity #plusisamust #fashionstyle #plussizebeauties #fullfiguredfashion #psf#psfashionger #psblogger #plu#plussizestyle #selfie #plussizeswimsuit # #fatgirlsbewinning #miami #plussizeswimwear #plussize #psootd #psfashion #bbwlove #wewearwhatwewant #thickthighssavelives #plussizestyle #plussizemodelmag #plussizelife #loveyourcurves #mood #june8th #pmmlovemybody #torridfashion
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