YOU FEEL UNDESIRABLE TO YOUR HUSBAND OR PARTNER + HOW TO CHANGE THAT 🥰⁣ ⁣ First of all, this is not an uncommon feeling I encounter with women on a daily basis, so there is no need to feel embarrassed about this taboo topic. ⁣ ⁣ And quite frankly, hiding the way you feel is what is making it EVEN HARDER for you to find the body confidence you desire (and you BOTH deserve). ⁣ ⁣ I’m going to let you in on a little secret, studies show that while women THINK their man desires the skinny model with a thigh gap, what he ACTUALLY desires is the SHAPE your body takes, thighs touching, curves, and all. ⁣ ⁣ On the flip side, you may be feeling undesirable because you’ve “let yourself go,” (which PS, isn’t even an actual thing because you’re still here). The problem is, all of the years of telling yourself you’re “gross,” “fat,” “ugly,” etc. are catching up with the point you ACTUALLY believe these lies. And according to my husband, that’s the unattractive thing. ⁣ ⁣ 👉🏼 THE LIES YOU’RE BELIEVING ARE BLOCKING THE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF & DEEPER CONNECTION YOU WANT! 👈🏼⁣ ⁣ How to change that?! I GOTCHU SIS ✌🏼😘⁣ ⁣ 💃🏼 FORGET SKINNY: Ladies, stop treating your body like a disappearing act. Men don’t want skin & bones, and if you could get honest with yourself, neither do you. Lift some weights and FEEL how strong you are, & then get back to me on that whole confidence thing! ⁣ ⁣ 📝 CONNECT TO YOU: Journal, mediate, THINK about what feeling good in your skin REALLY means to you. Spend time within so you can exude your beauty, love, & light into the world. We can’t love others like we want to love until we’ve given that to ourselves first. ⁣ ⁣ 👗 ROCK THE MIRROR: STOP avoiding mirrors right this second. You’ve conditioned yourself to avoid TRULY witnessing how FREAKING AMAZING you are! Rather than pic yourself apart, simply whisper, “I love you & I appreciate taking care of you,” the next time you pass a mirror. ⁣ ⁣ 👉🏼 The GOAL is long term health & happiness, and I want you to thrive in a body you BOTH can love!⁣ ⁣ The link in my bio is your opportunity to claim that RIGHT NOW (6/20 spots left)!!⁣ #Rulebreaker #UpperLimits #ClaimYourConfidence #SexySelf
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Claim your confidence. We women are so good at owning our imperfections, our failures, and flaws especially compared to another sister. Let’s be real: We are good at stuff. We have skills. We have wisdom. We have grit. We’re creative. When you claim your confidence, it’s that much easier for your sister to stop playing small. Challenge: no negative self-talk for 24 hours.
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Self Love Tip #1: Celebrate Your Successes (This could look like bragging but who cares!) ❤️ As humans, we often do this really weird thing of beating ourselves up when we don’t do well and then completely ignoring our successes. You know the saying, “I just can’t win!” ❤️ Well, let’s start shouting our successes from the rooftops. Because celebrating you is an act of SELF LOVE. I’ll go first. ❤️❤️❤️ In December, I launched a new group coaching program around the book Invisible Warfare. This is work that I’ve been doing for nearly 20 years and I’m so incredibly passionate about it. I have five courageous warriors on this 6 month journey with me. Today, one of my clients sent me this text about how Invisible Warfare is changing their life: “Invisible Warfare has helped me face the things that are holding me back from my true self and to find out why they were holding me back in the first place. It's a deep introspection made stronger through the shared group experience.” ❤️ Now that feels good, not only to hear it but to share it with all of you. My hard work is paying off and it’s touching other people’s lives in a profound way. Woo Hoo!!! ❤️ Now, it’s your turn. What success do you want to celebrate? . . . . . #cel#celebrateyouf #celebratesuccess #celebrateyou #shareit #loveyourselfmore #sel#selflove #lovemonth #selflove #selflovefirst #selflovejourney #selflovewarrior #radicalselflove #lovememore #loveconquershate #loveheals #loveispatient #loveiskind #loveisallweneed #loveiseverything #loveisloveislove #loveismyreligion #loveisfree #loveiseverywhere #loveisthekey #invisiblewarfare #loveneverfails #loveneverdies #selflovemonth #claimyourconfidence
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“It’s truly amazing what a little bit of ink can do, for the mind, body and soul .” An innovative solution to cover and correct your areas of concern . Something as simple as Microblading your eyebrows, through to tattooing your skin tone in areas where there is scarring, blemishes and other skin imperfections. Contact us for your free consultation today. @purematchskinfx [email protected] #microblading #eyebrowfeathering #eyebrowshaping #semipermanenttattoo #paramedicalmicropigmentation #paramedicaltattoo #surgeryscars #alopecia #accidentscars #burnscars #cleftpalatesurgery #3dareolatattoo #breastcancersurvivors #scarcamouflage #skinpigmentation #skincolourrestoration #claimyourconfidence #nomoremakeup #servinggta
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What is the story you are waiting to tell? What is stopping you from telling it? Your future clients are waiting for you but they will never find you if they don't know you exist! This isn't just about you. It's about all the people who need you and the magic you provide. The awesome thing about the energy of self promotion is that once you start, a wave is created. The universe starts helping you! But they need to know you are serious! You still have time to sign up for the Claim Your Confidence Challenge. Show us that you are serious! Link to sign up is in my bio☝️ ⠀ *⠀ #claimyourconfidence #soulfulselling #authenticselling #quietselling #quietsellingmethod #selfpromotion #14daychallenge #introvertlife
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I love this quote by Mary Oliver which is so timely with the news of her passing. But notice the last part, "Tell about it."⠀ *⠀ I want to make sure your story gets told. There are too many amazing and soulful business owners out there who are not promoting themselves. And if you don't promote yourself, you are doing a huge disservice to yourself and to all the people who are waiting for your work.⠀ *⠀ The world is full of people who are waiting for you! So if you have not signed up for the FREE Claim Your Confidence Challenge yet, please don't wait. Even if you did it last year! Even if you don't have the time! Even if you are not a group person. I promise you, something good will come out of it.⠀ *⠀ The first email drops tomorrow morning bright and early and I want you to be reading it!⠀ *⠀ Link to sign up is in my bio☝️ ⠀ *⠀ #claimyourconfidence #soulfulselling #authenticselling #quietselling #quietsellingmethod #selfpromotion #14daychallenge
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Are you ready to Claim Your Confidence?⠀ ⚡️⠀ We are kicking off the 14 day Self Promotion Challenge tomorrow! ⠀ ⚡️⠀ This challenge is for you if:⠀ 👉You want to feel good promoting your work⠀ 👉You want to make more money in your business⠀ 👉You want to attract clients that love & appreciate you 😍⠀ 👉You want to feel authentic and in alignment when you are selling⠀ ⠀ We are running out of time. Are you in? Sign up with the link in my bio 👆🏼 ⚡️ cause we start tomorrow people!⠀ ⠀ #claimyourconfidence #soulfulselling #authenticselling #quietselling #quietsellingmethod #selfpromotion #14daychallenge
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