I’m into orgasm control, as I believe I have mentioned. Just typing it was like SPLOOOSH! 😂 . .
It probably should have been a sign that we should try femdom when, a year or so ago (before we formalized our power exchange), I told him he had to send me any porn he came to. It was just a glimpse of the control he was dying to pass over to me.
I lovelovelove the idea of my submissive husband going about his day with aching balls and/or a visible erection. I love knowing that he aches *for me*; that he’s hard *for me*. I love the idea of other women, especially, noticing his bulge. For me, it’s his attractiveness, masculinity, desirability, and prowess that makes me feel powerful, because I OWN IT. . .
This is why I’m not into chastity. I want him to get hard, and I actually order him to do so during the day. I trust him not to come without permission, because he has not a single defiant bone in his body. Bless his submissive little heart. If there were a cage that would let him get hard without damaging him, I might consider it. I love the nuance in kink!
Where do you fall on chastity? 👍🏻? 👎🏻?