✨Minding My Magical Business Doing Laundry... ✨
Just putting clothes in the washer & reflecting on the fact that I’m finally THAT age 😅 - but seriously where tf do all my other socks go?? _
Every other I post I see is engagement rings & pregnancies - I’m happy for all y’all truly, I couldn’t imagine myself being in either situation though.
Dear single women.
I understand shit happens and /or sometimes you get cold feet and don't wanna meet. I get that.
But a least txt ur date to let them know what's going on. Being stood up is not cool especially If they travel to you!
If you don't wanna meet, don't give a guy ur number, don't day yes to meeting .
STOP PLAYING GAMES!!!!!!!!
Love yourself first and everything else will follow.⠀
I usually talk about going on dates with guys and travel, but I’m switching it up. This weekend I took myself on a date. I got a hotel and booked a massage at a spa. I was away from technology for a few hours and relaxed and treated myself. At least once a year I like to do this(this was the first time I got a massage). I like to take myself away from everything and focus on me and how I want to be my best self. ⠀
I think we all need to date ourselves whenever we have a chance. Loving and taking care of yourself is something everyone needs to do. ⠀
I used to hate my thick thighs. I remember crying when I went shopping with my mom one time. I used to hate my hair. I remember crying before taking team volleyball pics because I had no idea what to do with it. I used to hate being single, I would cry about that too. I know, I know I’m a cry baby 😭👶🏾 We all know the popular saying is when you love yourself you’ll find somebody. I don’t think that’s completely true, but loving yourself is a necessity for living a happy life.⠀
I love myself, but I still have a lot to work on. Blogging and posting pictures and videos on social media frequently is completely out of my comfort zone. But I think stepping out of our comfort zone makes us a better person. ⠀
Next time you’re stressed about life or just want to work on you, take yourself on a date. Book a hotel/Airbnb for a day or book a massage. Even just grabbing lunch alone is a great date to take yourself on. Just do it, I promise you’ll thank yourself for it later. ⠀