This is where you truly build a connection. If we can't have a real conversation, open up to each other, and really dig deep, then I'm never going to feel a sense of attachment, build and nurture trust, or feel any closeness toward you. People often ask "Why are you single?". Many reasons, the main one is that I refuse to ever settle for anything or anyone that isn't awesome and meant for me, I know my worth and expect to meet my equal in this life, nothing less. The second, most folks are so guarded, they don't truly open up. I will open up to someone unil they give me a reason not to, I have no filter, I speak whatever crazy randomness crosses my mind, and I want to feel comfortable being myself and you being yourself around me. I want to explore the depths of our minds, I want to know what your favorite dinosaur is or your theory on wizardry or if you think mankind is inherently good,etc. I will take the depths over the shallows, any day.