Marriage monday 👰 I love this picture, its from our first look. I love how he looked at me when he saw me for the first time 😍 Its so important how we view eachother not just on days like this but everyday and especially on hard days. Every marriage has days where we are tempted to view our spouse in a negative light. Its very easy to see their flaws when we are upset or when they are not acting the nicest. Something that has been huge for our marriage is always trying to think the best about the other person even if their behavior is not modelling that at the moment. We really try to seperate the behavior and try to see whats really going on. We used to fight alot and fuel eachothers anger but now we have really purposed to stop and to view eachother through the eyes of love. Gods love is powerful and it also changes things. I had a season where I really disected 1cor 13, well know as the love chapter... Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things Now this love is powerful and if we apply it to our lives it will change things. I have seen it first hand in my marriage. Its challenging but if we let it, it will change us too. Now I dont always apply this in the moment but my prayer is that this kind of love becomes my default ❤ What is something that has helped you love your spouse on the hard days?