Me when I see someone defending Melanie Martinez. . . . . . . . . . . . . . #endrapeculture #nomeansno #consent #onlyyesmeansyes #melaniemartinez #mythoughts #rapeculture #timothyheller
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I edited this poem this morning, but I wrote it in February 2016, nearly two years ago after going on a date I thought was supposed to be a casual dinner between two friends. I was extra naive about male intentions in that era of my life, but I had rejected this person once and assumed that one “no” would be enough to make my feelings clear. It will always make me uncomfortable watching men, even the most attractive and heroic ones, push women past their boundaries. Always. Always. I’m glad people are talking about this now and hope that more and more people notice how pervasive the worship of male aggression is in our society and that people will stop thinking of me as a killjoy during romcoms or Star Wars because it all comes from really watching. Thank you for reading, and please scream at Ross Gellar on your tv tonight, for me. The end. #poem #metoo #starwars #satc #thenotebook #no #onlyyesmeansyes #everydaysexism #pussypower
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Seriously? So, can we up the penalty too if we show it is a waste of time.#brockturner #onlyyesmeansyes #affirmativeconsent #passedoutmeansno #passedoutmeansnotoo #drunkmeansno
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Thanks @che@cherie.nuit !!!! #Repost @cherie.nuit (@get_repost) ・・・ Just a little reminder courtesy of @slingaillustration and reposted by @potyertitsawayluv that as you snuggle up for the holidays NUDITY IS NOT CONSENT. Stay sexy, go team fun!! #onlyyesmeansyes ⠀#nomeansno #survivor
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Just a little reminder courtesy of @slingaillustration and reposted by @potyertitsawayluv that as you snuggle up for the holidays NUDITY IS NOT CONSENT. Stay sexy, go team fun!! #onlyyesmeansyes
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今晚來參加全球女性影響力論壇(Global Women Impact Summit),由台灣第一家以性別觀點為主軸的自由媒體社群:女人迷(Womany.net)發起的活動。心有戚戚焉的議題,萌生一種欣慰跟感動,因擁有這樣優秀的行動派宣揚者,世界才得以迅速的進步,就像Emma Watson説:If not me,who? If not now,when? 如果我們內心深處對著某些議題或狀態,甚只是身邊需要幫助的人...有著什麼想法,我們不該總是保持沈默。因為漠視不會帶來任何改變。 #globalwomenimpactsummit #womenempowerment #empowerment #Recreatedefinition #genderequality #sexualequality #equalrights #feminism #womenspower #onlyyesmeansyes #modernwomensfoundation #heforshe #張瑋軒 #womannetworking #女人迷 #劉安婷 #fob#fobes30under30asia #teachfortaiwan #bbc#bbc100women #nepal #bbc #fobes #陳美齡 #unicef #agnesmeilingkanekochan #50個教育法我把三個兒子送入了史丹福
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If you need a reminder #Consent #OnlyYesMeansYes
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“No we’re not broken.” Today I visited the photo exhibition of the “Week to fight rape culture,” organised by the GRape project. On their skin, victims of sexual violence have messages written for all of us. Go to Luna’s Story on Facebook for more information and come see it for yourself at Loungebar 1050 at VUB. #onlyyesmeansyes #mybodymychoice #deweekvan #theweekof #wearevub #metoo
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"I'm A Feminist. I've been Female Since Forever Now . It's would Be Stupid Not To Be On My Own Side." 👸 #feminist #speakout #consent #onlyyesmeansyes #warriors #sexualabuseawareness #ok2share #tothegirls
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Makeup doesn't speak. Clothes don't speak. People speak. Remember #silence is NOT #consent #onlyyesmeansyes #redmylips #lookdontstare
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My little collection of buttons on my car visor, all given to me by people or groups. #lgbtqia #thisiswhatdemocracylookslike #onlyyesmeansyes
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. We teach girls & women to accommodate for men who rape, who sexually assault, who coerce and gaslight for sex. We teach girls & women to walk with their keys between their knuckles at night, to not show too much of their body unless they want to risk a man taking his sexual attraction too far, to not leave drinks unattended - even at parties with males they know, to not get too drunk. We teach girls to change their actions. . Why don't we teach men to change their actions? . Fathers & brothers are wary of boys and men around their daughters and sisters. Men know what men are like. Yet we do nothing to change what men are like. . It is not that men are simply more sexual than women, that they absolutely need to have lot's of sex. It is how we raise our boys and men. It is in the friendships we keep with creeps. It is in the silence after an inappropriate comment about or to a woman. . #stopbeingfriendswithrapists #onlyyesmeansyes . #feminism #freethenipple #freethenipplemovement #equality #repost @jwiebzy
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The KSA Women's Collective getting posters ready for the #metoo rally in Vancouver this weekend. . . #womenempowerment #end#endrapeure #endrape #notalone #webelieveyou #consentissexy #consentismandatory #onlyyesmeansyes #nomeansno #drunkisnotconsent #wewillnotbesilent #ksa #execlife
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#halloweenweekend Costumes or Cosplay are never Consent. #onlyyesmeansyes Draw the Line this weekend if you see something you are uncomfortable with. 🌟ask a friend to help you help someone else 🌟ask someone who may be being targeted if the are okay 🌟if you are in Residence talk to a Don or Supervisor 🌟 there are lots of ways to step in and make a difference - if you see something - you have the power to do something 🌟 #lakercommunity #lakersareactivebystanders . . 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃. . Reposted image from #rosecitycomiccon
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#FeminismFriday - We can accomplish so much more together, than divided 💕
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Hey fellas! Whatever shenanigans you were planning to get into this weekend, I encourage you to cancel them. Lol This is not to suggest I have not ever participated in said shenanigans (its not to say I did either 🤷🏽‍♂️) - it is only to say that it is not worth it... according to a recent study. #HappyFriday 😃 #IfYoureGonnaDoItAnywayPleaseBeSafe #OnlyYesMeansYes #ConsentMatters #DontBeACreep
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When I was 16 my 40-something y/o boss used to tickle me at work when I had my hands full. I laughed it off. It’s not a big deal. It’s just an example. He’s not a bad guy. It was so long ago... But it’s still not easy to hit ‘OK’ on this post #metoo #handsoff #consent Art via @kellyetz
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#metoo the day has come that we can make our voices heard. we will not be silenced. this movement is meant to show how vast the problem in our society is. victim shaming, or the "no one will believe you" has got to stop. the assault has got to stop. #onlyyesmeansyes #strongerthanmystory
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I know I'm early but I wanted to get this info out in time for you to adjust accordingly! with the current climate on #race #politics and #sexuality Halloween is an easy way to catch that L! Don't do it, do be that guy or gal that dresses in blackface or as a Native American or anything else that marginalizes a culture. be smart and keep it 💯#ThingsIveLearned #leadershipisaverb #cultureisnotacostume via @RiplApp
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I don’t know a single woman, myself included, who has not at some point in her life experienced sexual harassment or assault in one form or another. Sadly, we have all been cat-called, whistled at, groped, grabbed, relentlessly hit on, called a tease for being friendly but not wanting more, called a bitch for turning someone down, called a slut or a whore, drugged so some spineless coward could attempt to have their way with us, degraded and abused verbally, emotionally or physically, raped and so on. All of these UNWANTED advances or events are harassment or assault. And as the perpetrator, you don’t get to decide if it is wanted or unwanted. I don’t care how tight her skirt is, how much cleavage she is showing, if she gave you all the “signs” that she wanted you, gave you her number, let you take her to dinner, a kiss, sent a sexy picture, even had sex with you before... none of those things mean that you can put your hands on her without permission. And the only thing that gives you permission is the word yes! Phrases like “did you see what she was wearing/how she was acting? She was asking for it” and “boys will be boys” are not acceptable. Without express consent, and both parties being willing, coherent, and conscious, each and every time, it’s harassment or assault. Those who have experienced these things aren’t the ones who should be made to feel shame. Those who prey on other people are the ones who should. If you’ve experienced harassment or assault, hold your head high. There is nothing that you’ve done that warrants being treated with such disrespect. Don’t view yourself as damaged, broken or a victim for what someone else chose to put you through, but rather as a victor; strong and capable for facing such things and not allowing them to define you. #metoo #iwasntaskingforit #noshame #notmyfault #nomeansno #onlyyesmeansyes #teachrespect #showrespect #timeforachange
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Abso-fuckin-lutely 👏👏 NO explanation needed, just respect the answer given! #metoo #nomeansno #respectwomen #concent #onlyyesmeansyes #women #daughters #wives #sisters #mums #aunts #nieces #grans #thisneedstostop #noexcuse #survivor
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Because there are so many women in my life who I know have been groped, catcalled, harassed and raped. No. They weren’t asking for it. No one is ever asking for something like this no matter what you were raised to believe. No. It isn’t a compliment. Stop making this the narrative. Cat calling isn’t okay. I hope this movement will have an impact on some. Stop with the empty words and stop victim blaming then maybe just maybe victims would feel comfortable coming forward. Also please realize we are humans. Whether or not you have a sister women will be human and deserving of respect.
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#MeToo No 19 year old girl should be afraid to receive help. She shouldn’t have to wonder if people are going to shame her or blame her. Every Woman, Girl, Man or Boy should have the comfort in knowing that they can tell someone and be BELIEVED, be loved and be safe. So like I said no 19 year old girl should ever feel like they should hide away the feelings of discomfort, sadness, hurt or fear. I am so proud of all you who have shown such courage in your #metoo posts. I want you to know that I am a safe place and am always here to talk. #rapeculture #nomeansno #harveyweinstein #sexualassault #notaskingforit #endvictimblaming #endrapeculture #dispelrapemyths #speakout #starttheconversation #changetheculture #consentmatters #onlyyesmeansyes
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Me too. If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote "Me too" as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem. Please copy/paste. #metoo #jagmed #yesallwomen #onlyyesmeansyes #fattanu #samtycke Photo by @cunviks
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Me too. If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote "Me too" as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem. Please copy/paste. #metoo #jagmed #yesallwomen #onlyyesmeansyes #fattanu #samtycke Photo by @cunviks
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As someone that was raped in a way that most people (including my own mother) think isn't even really rape, I find this movement so incredibly important. You can retract your consent at any point in time. No one is ever entitled to your body. #metoo #sexualassaultawareness #sexualharrasmentawareness #rapevictim #rapesurvivor #raiseboystorespectwomen #creatingconsentculture #consentculture #onlyyesmeansyes #believevictims #endvictimblaming #ibelieveyou
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If every woman commented #met#met#met#metoo in response to stories about sexual assault, maybe people would understand the scope of the problem. I am joining the ranks of many strong women in my life who have survived sexual assault in, without any beating around the bush declaring #metoo Doesn't matter what I was doing or wearing or my relationship to my attacker. Observe how many women in your life are able to say #metoo and realize it's a serious problem. #metoo #sexualassault #rape #survivor #nomeansno #whateverwewear #whereeverwego #onlyyesmeansyes #unconsciousmeansno #myoutfitisnotconsent #intoxicationisnotconsent
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Consent MATTers! Thanks for stopping by, Matt Damon & crew. #consentmatters #uviclife #uviccares #boysinthebooth #grouplove #onlyyesmeansyes
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@kidd.bell exposing the normalcy of harassment by displaying tons of dick pics and disturbing texts that men send when their advances are ignored/rejected, often ending in violent tirades. Also saw some cool art and got to spend time with my sweet sista @shrivedawellness!! @okaymontana @porouswalker @thinktankdtla @antoniacrane #thatdickpicshow #nomeansno #silencemeansno #onlyyesmeansyes #dontbeadick #trump #eroticmovementarts #riseup
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Sex is a lot more fun with consent 🌸 Artwork by: @bobbydelightful
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Maybe not today.... maybe not tomorrow, but I promise things will get better #rapestopsnow #nomeansno #onlyyesmeansyes
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It's been 3 years today since he took my choice away from me. Since I woke up that morning as a #survivor not a victim. They say time heals all #wounds but I'm not sure about that. Eventually, as the time passes you just accept them. You stop hiding the scars. I used the pain, the fear, the shame to make myself into a better person. He did not give me this strength, but he showed me it existed in me. Some days, like today, this week, are harder. So I allow myself to think of all the ways I am better for having had this experience. To think of the parts of me that I am thankful for, the parts that did not exist before that night. #onlyyesmeansyes #redmylips #ok2share #stronger #strongerthanyou #strongernowthanbefore #warriors #loveyourself #loveyouguys #silenceisnotconsent #victimblaming #speakout #changetheconversation #notaskingforit #rapeculture
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